In other words, be sure to read her profile – let me repeat that – be sure to read her profile!

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She is more likely to open your email if it catches her attention.

A great way to do this is with a humorous remark about something in her profile.

Pick out three to four, and use them to launch your profile.

It's a good idea to put up a variety of pictures, such as: one in a suit, one dressed casually, one of you doing a hobby or conveying an interest of yours. Don't be one of those guys that posts pics with his shirt off, or with Zoolander male model face. And please guys, don't make them pornographic – G-rated pictures only. This should be fairly short, but needs to be both funny and insightful.

This helps to alleviate her anxiety about meeting you.

If you have nothing in common, she will feel like there will be nothing to talk about and the date will be awkward and uncomfortable.

For the purposes of the first contact, begin a conversation with her by indicating that you share commonalities.

To summarize, in the first email you want to cover these three things: humor, a compliment and make a connection.

Be sure to keep the humor lite, and never, NEVER, make fun of her picture.