Instead, you want clothes that are relatively consistent in hue.

They don’t have to be perfectly monochrome – you don’t need to dress head to toe in black, for example – but keeping things within the same color-scheme helps the eye track over your body without stopping.

The old saw about how vertical stripes is based on this idea.

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This is one of the benefits of suits – the uniform color scheme helps create a unified silhouette.

Similarly, vertical patterns and stripes will help direct the eye in the ways you want.

You may think that you’re hiding it like the professional poker-player you could be, but in reality, that sour attitude is shining off you like an especially greasy halo.

potential attraction, no matter how awesome you may be otherwise. The more you let your height (or lack thereof) bother you, the less attractive you get.

But hey, that’s cold comfort when women are putting “six feet tall, minimum” in their dating profiles and your friends all call you “Short Round”.

The thing is, as with many other masculine insecurities, this is predominantly in our heads. Worse, I’m the shortest of all my friends who range from 5’1o” on the short side, to 6’7″ on the tall side.

OK, before you click the back button in disgust, hear me out. We inevitably find our focus divided among the million little things that occupy our attention.

But when we feel like someone is giving us their listening instead of waiting for your turn to talk – is absurdly powerful.

Short men are screwed when it comes to dating, right?