They don’t return your phone calls, they don’t keep a single promise and you’re starting to suspect that they might be involved with someone else.The target is left baffled and confused and wondering what they did wrong to cause such an abrupt turnaround.As the Narcissist withdraws, the target starts to cling and your demands for his attention and your need to understand what’s happening, grate on his nerves.

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I don’t feel like I belong anywhere or with anyone.” Narcissists are completely self-absorbed and are oblivious to the wants and needs of others.

They enter into relationships in an attempt to fill this void and to make sure that they have someone who is always available for sex, an ego stroke or whatever need they may have.

Suddenly the attention they so lavishly gave you is gone and replace by indifference and silence.

Days or weeks could go by and you won’t hear from them.

They will talk and think about them constantly, they are euphoric.

This is as close as a Narcissist will ever get to feeling love.

They shower their targets with attention, compliments and literally sweep them off their feet.

They place their target on a pedestal, idolize and worship them.

Narcissists become bored easily and what usually starts happening in their heads at this stage, is that the void begins to emerge again.