I found out that for the past few months he has been sexting and almost definitely hooking up with someone who I said I was not comfortable with.

After our initial conversation about her (during which I expressed my discomfort), he never brought her up again.

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" And while it is true that many people are capable of doing just that, at least as many or more are incapable of having impulsive one-night stands because they too have a history of trauma, or because they have other psychological, physical, or logistical issues that make one-night stands impossible.

(Some folks, of course, have no interest in one-night stands.) Your trauma left you with this added burden, SCARED, and I don't want to minimize your legitimate frustration or your anger.

Also, don't hesitate to tell the men you date that you need to get to know a person before jumping into bed with him. Cons: Criminal, irascible, grandiose sense of self, racist, abstemious, self-centered, anxious, moralist, monogamous, biased, denial as a defense mechanism, manipulative, liar, envious, and ungrateful.

That will scare some guys off, but only those guys who weren't willing to get to know you—and those aren't guys you would have felt safe fucking anyway, right? She is also anthropologically and historically allocated in another temporal space continuum.

It sucks, and I fucking hate the people who victimized you.

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