These days, Plenty Of and Ok are the two free online dating players worthy of your consideration.

Nobody teaches effective email techniques based on actual research. My theory is because it’s easiest – it’s what comes naturally to you. Please, please, please consider going out with me.”For example, if someone says in his profile that he likes Costa Rica, you think about all the things you know about Costa Rica and search your brain for a humorous angle.

The closest anybody gets is Ok Cupid – and all they do is give you test results – approximately 27% of people respond to first emails, overall – they don’t show you HOW to write great first emails. You have a great smile and I think we have a lot in common, too. So you don’t put much thought into it, and, not surprisingly, it doesn’t get very good results. There’s nothing funny, interesting, compelling, or different about such an email. Something other than, “I’ve heard it’s beautiful there! ” Personally, I don’t know ANYTHING about Costa Rica, but I do know that all of my left-wing, liberal, neo-hippie friends go on yoga retreats there. I don’t know anything about Costa Rica; I think it’s in the Caribbean or Central America or something like that.

In any case, we’ve compiled this list of ways to find out if someone is a pothead! Stoner eyes are the best indicator someone is a stoner. It’s about those lazy eyelids, those unfocused stares.

Looking into the eyes of a person can tell you a lot – especially whether they smoke weed or not.

As you may know, before I became a dating coach, I was a prolific online dater. Site are just big boxes of single people who are trying to meet each other. If you’ve ever received an email like this, you know it sucks.

I tried every site around, starting in the late 90’s. Nobody shows them how to come up with clever usernames. Nobody illustrates how to create a unique, compelling online dating profile. But then why do you also WRITE emails like this as well?If you’re not sure whether someone is a pothead or not, ask them for a lighter.If you never see them smoke but they have a lighter to give you, you can basically guarantee that they smoke weed.The chances are that you just found out someone is a stoner. Yes, there’s chunks of the cardboard missing because they’ve used it to make a roach filter.Some stoners might be hesitant to hand over the packet for this reason.So if you’ve been frustrated with your results in online dating (and one look at the comments below indicates that you ARE), there are a number of things you can do differently to get different results. Plus, it compliments the recipient too much – as if Chris is just praying that he/she is good enough for Pat102. Literally, the only reason I’ve even heard of Costa Rica is because of yoga. All I know is that all of my left-wing yoga friends go on week-long retreats there every year.