This is on page 10 of our booklet an excerpt : HAVE AN INTERESTING SUBJECT LINE When a girl opens her inbox and there is line after line of unopened mail. Struggling to think of the right thing to say to an attractive match?

I know a lot don't like seeing that sort of thing flaunted about. Unless you're Brad Pitt, it's not going to impress very many.

Read their profile thoroughly and get a good understanding of their interests. I know a lot of guys will "carpet bomb" a massive quantity of ladies with a standard, dull message.

I usually just go with a pretty standard, "Hello, how are you tonight?

" or some variation of that, but then I read on these forums that that is perhaps "lame".

Or mention that you like the beach as well (Only if you actually do of course). I know I'm not a lady, but I do know that some will view your profile before they even open the message.

And I know this isn't the profile review forum, but you may want to consider adding in some pictures of you smiling and possibly remove that one of the cig in your mouth.In the subject line write " HEY YOU" and in the content write " IS YOUR NAME SUZIE? If you want to send us a testimonial or sign up for more or our programs... Sometimes in real world situations (like the workplace or neighborhood) a woman might warm up to you as time goes by." Please do not be discouraged by our simple methods. When it comes to online dating, it's a lot more superficial.This is basic, but sometimes daters forget that the first thing a match will do when they receive an interesting email is click on the profile of the person who sent it.If your profile is half-finished, or Arctic in its brevity, or doesn’t include photos, most likely you won’t receive a reply.I've written a few with more detail and questions and so on, but then it seems like I'm in the middle of a conversation we're not actually having.