The temptation for some guys is to sit back and take occasional shots at the girls they especially want.

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The goal of evo-psych is to show that our modern behavior is inborn, that everything from whom we’re attracted to, to social dynamics, is born out of evolution instead of societal change.

Women, for example, are built for monogamy and are less interested in sex in general – so the theory goes – because sperm is metaphorically cheap while eggs are expensive; there is less metabolic cost to men for producing sperm, while women not only generate the ovum, but place their health and safety at risk by bearing the child.

This strategy has two consequences: his game remains in a state of rustiness and he gets overly excited at the prospects that do come his way.

With no harem to keep his cock golden and ego elevated, he devotes all his mental energy into one girl at a time. If you want to have sex with one girl, you must do X number of approaches, get Y numbers, go on Z dates, and so on, where Z is less than Y is less than X.

After all, we’ve tamed the deserts, charted the oceans, harnessed the atom and conquered outer space…

clearly we are a people of lucid cognition who see only what is real, untainted by superstition or cultural prejudice. We let confirmation bias control much of what we believe, even down to our science.

The secret to getting laid is old fashioned hard work.

Get your ass out in the field, approach in large numbers, get that experience, build momentum, and it’s almost impossible not to lay a variety of women.

This idea would go on to shape not just the perception of women, but the understanding of human sexuality.