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Think about your relationship with her in the past few weeks/months/year, and answer YES or NO to the following questions: If you were nice to your girlfriend The unwritten laws of the ‘social food chain’ dictate that inferior people seek approval from superior ones, and not the other way around.
Women naturally know this, and by trying to get your girl to like you more (approval seeking) using ‘nice’ behavior, you made her feel like she’s superior to you.
Have you tried your best to get her to change her mind and found that it hasn’t worked at all?
Who do you think is higher in the social hierarchy? By accommodating your ex girl’s every desire or demand, you behaved like a slave (inferior) and she behaved like a master (superior).
Women are attracted to men who they perceive to be at least a little higher than them in the social food chain (read: superior men).
In other words, giving in to the desires and instructions of women on an even semi-regular basis is unattractive to them, and if you were doing it, then it will have definitely been a part of the reason she dumped you. Attraction is a very primal and subconscious process that has been in place for thousands of years, so she won’t be consciously aware of why she lost attraction for you. They date other celebs who have a DMV as high as, or higher than, their own.
That said, if you asked her about this, she would never admit it. A girl with any degree of DMV (Dating Market Value) will start to think of a guy (even a boyfriend) who regularly compliments her, as a fan boy. By complimenting your ex consistently, you basically showed her that her DMV was higher than yours.
The problem with this for you has been that your nice behavior has prevented your woman from seeing you as a superior man, for the reason I outlined above (approval seeking).
And of course if your girl doesn’t see you as superior, she then loses attraction for you.Evolution and the desire to have the strongest possible offspring, dictate that your girl gets attracted to guys she sees as superior to herself.All women have this mechanism wired into their DNA in order to keep the human race strong.This is when thoughts of ending the relationship enter her head.Picture this: you have two people, a master and a slave.This is typical of women, but I’m a fellow guy who’s on your side, and I can give it to you straight, so here goes…There are 3 possibilities for why she dumped you, and I’ve put them into categories A, B and C.