At least getting one woman after another into your bed, is really easy, even if you’re quite ugly!For some reason Japanese women seem to find even ugly foreign guys attractive …..

dating in japanese-1

For some guys it really gets to their heads and they start bragging about it like crazy as part of the superstar syndrome.

The complete opposite is the case for (Western) foreign women in Japan.

And at the same time there’s only a very tiny number of foreign (read: non-Asian) women with Japanese men next to them. Maybe that’s a secret we’ll never quite get, but there are many theories!

A lot of Japanese women want a guy that tells them several times a day how much he loves them.

I’m sure you have your own and there’s much more behind all this, but that’s it for starters, I guess.

As a result, dating in Japan is usually quite easy for men.

Maybe they also think that a foreign woman might expect from their man that he’s telling his feelings straight out several times a day, something a shy Japanese man just won’t do.

Another problem is that many of the Japanese men seem to be afraid of their English ability and thus fail to approach a foreign woman.

I also experienced that they’re unable to do anything on their own.

When I ask them about how they got their cellphone or credit card they just answer they don’t know because their wife did it for them.

Most foreign men on the other hand, have no issues approaching a Japanese woman in English – or even in broken Japanese.