Also at that time found I out he was still on the dating site.

Just click the Ask a Private Question tab on our site and follow the steps. ____________________ Hi Guys, I have had an ongoing affair with a long time friend going on 10 years. I have no illusions that we have anything “more” ahead of us than what we have now and I accept that fully. But what I want your insight on is this: the last time I saw him he told me he had joined a “cheater’s site” last winter, and got to know one woman there quite well over several months, but that in February he decided to end this budding new affair as he already has everything he wants and needs, between his wife and me. Again, I have no illusions that I’m the only one he’s cheated with or […] Read More Readers, Do you have a relationship, dating or sex question?

What’s going on is that he’s now focusing on what he does NOT have […] Get the Guy's Perspective...

Just click the Ask a Private Question tab on our site and follow the steps. ____________________ Hi Guys, I have had an ongoing affair with a long time friend going on 10 years. I have no illusions that we have anything “more” ahead of us than what we have now and I accept that fully. But what I want your insight on is this: the last time I saw him he told me he had joined a “cheater’s site” last winter, and got to know one woman there quite well over several months, but that in February he decided to end this budding new affair as he already has everything he wants and needs, between his wife and me. Again, I have no illusions that I’m the only one he’s cheated with or […] Get the Guy's Perspective... But this is more about what he lacks rather than what you lack. Readers, Do you have a relationship, dating or sex question?

Readers, Do you have a relationship, dating or sex question? It’s okay to feel the deep emotions you’re feeling but don’t let them take you down. Do you need coaching on your current relationship/dating situation?

Just click the Ask a Private Question tab on our site and follow the steps. ____________________ Dear Guys, All of my experiences with guys have been sexually based, either hookups or some sort of casual sex arrangements.

So what’s happening between me and this particular guy is a bit confusing to me.

The time I spent with him was extremely fun, light hearted, spontaneous and I can honestly say that I truly believed it would be a fling and I’d never hear from him again afterwards.

Not only did he message me after he left, it’s a month later and we’re still messaging!

We began a committed relationship about a month after meeting (10 mos into our relationship now).

About three months in, it became evident he was having ED (erectile dysfunction).

Being married for 20 years, I do want to make him happy. (I don’t have any desire to explore other sexual partners).