See Who Looks Like Your Type and Go on a Great Date!

Every once in a while, I like to poll my readers on the Nerd Love Facebook Page and on Twitter to find out what issues they feel are holding them back when it comes to dating.

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Too many people who are concerned about their weight try to dress to conceal it, usually wearing clothes that are too big and loose.

The problem is that all this does is draw attention to the fact that you’re trying to hide things – and making you look you.

And the most common answer is: “I worry that I’m too fat to date.” I’ll be honest: I’m not surprised. According to the Center for Disease Control, 69% of adults 20 years old and over are overweight and 35% are considered obese.

And yet even when the number of people who are considered overweight form the majority of the population, obesity is in many ways one of the remaining acceptable prejudices.

BMI is a profoundly inaccurate measure of just about and being skinny doesn’t guarantee good health.

The next key is simply to accept that your body is your body and your shape is your shape and there is only so much that you can do to change that.

Even if you’re big, wearing clothes that fit properly will flatter your profile and make you look more attractive.

Yes, I realize that you’re sensitive to people noticing your stomach or your nech.

Others are shorter and squatter and will always appear heavier.