Dating and sex on the job
When he saw an ad for the dating site Ashley Madison, which boasted 36 million members and the tagline, “Life is short, have an affair,” he decided to check it out. Everyday, he received more of these come-ons — until he finally said, “Fuck it.” “I’m like, ‘Hey, all these women want to talk with me,'” he recalls. As anyone who’s dated online knows, this is not entirely unusual. “I just figured they’re not interested anymore,” Russell says.“‘Let me go ahead and put in my credit card information.'” Russell paid 0 for 1,000 credits, which he could spend on sending replies or virtual gifts. After a few months of rejection, he didn’t bother to log back on Ashley Madison again.“You can design a bot to fool fraud detection.” But, in the case of a number of dating sites, developers aren’t trying to weed out fake profiles — they are tirelessly writing scripts and algorithms to unleash more of them.
According to leaked emails, to create the bots, the staff utilized photos from what they described as “abandoned profiles” that were at least two years old.
They also generated 10,000 lines of profile descriptions and captions.
In the end, about 80 percent of paying customers were contacted by an Ashley Angel.
“It appears they were scamming their users,” Conru says.
“The only way you can compete with fraud is you let people know it’s fraud,” he tells me.
“And it happens across the industry.” Conru and AFF’s CEO, Jon Buckheit, another Stanford Ph.“I don’t know if I can disclose this,” Conru says, “but recently, I had a guy do a search to see, like, White House.gov, and we found that there are lots of .govs, and a lot of ” The company incentivizes members to prove they’re who they say they are by sending in copies of their drivers licenses in return for a “verified” button on their profiles (similar to the little blue checks on Twitter accounts).The fact that men outnumber women on the site’s heterosexual platform ten-to-one is just life, they figure, and the women on the site are seemingly active enough to keep the guys onboard.A leaked file of sample dialogue includes lines such as: “Is anyone home lol, I’d enjoy an interesting cyber chat, are you up to it?” and “I might be a bit shy at first, wait til you get to know me, wink wink :)”.For AFF, bots are a cop out, though the appeal of building them is obvious enough to Conru.