It may be a birthday party in Dragonfly, a wedding, a dinner between colleagues.

Don't be afraid to pass the word around you that you are fed up with the bar scene, and that you are looking for a serious woman to be with.

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" is one of the questions I get asked the most by readers of Jakarta100bars.

The following list should answer this question though I imagine some of you may disagree with my rankings.

But after a few months, they realize that most of the girls they go out with are not what they expected: Very often, they lie, cheat, party a lot, take drugs, cannot commit, and are way too materialistic.

This is a very dark picture, but many of you will have recognized a past or present situation, maybe not as ugly but similar.

News 2015: This article is still valid but since I wrote it, online dating has become huge.

Check my guide: Online dating websites and Apps in Indonesia.

It means you may meet someone with whom you have more things in common than a hostess in Blok M.

I'm not criticizing girls in Blok M, but you have to admit it is a lot more difficult to connect with them, apart from the physical attraction.

To be noted: They were Expats working in large companies, and the person they dated didn't work in the same department than them.

Girls go to clubs to meet guys, they get drunk, they flirt, etc...

If you are a heavy alcohol drinker and if you are with a small group, I would advise to always buy a bottle.