e Harmony's in-depth relationship questionnaire allows you to determine what you’re really looking for, and then helps you find it.The scientifically-proven system, borne from years of in-depth research into successful couples, delves deeper than other Christian dating sites by asking questions designed to get to know the real you.

And unless someone’s making arrangements for you, it’s worth spending at least a little bit of time with the person before you decide if they are worth marrying. But it’s foolish to think that the way a girl or guy acts in a group of friends is the same as how they’ll act one on one.

Dating helps two people sort out what it would be like to be together, to be in a friendship.

“My daughter was interested in this nice Christian boy, but he strung her along for a year and a half.

The next one did too.” Or, “Jeremy acted like they were friends but she told me later that they were hooking up on the side.” With that kind of dismal dating culture at play, let’s consider the options: First, there’s “Duggar Dating.” Duggar dating is the modern-day form of arranged marriages.

Nicole Unice is the author of ÒBrave Enough: Getting Over our Fears, Flaws and Failures to Live Bold and Free.Ó (Tyndale, 2015) and travels frequently enough to almost feel like she can fly.

Being a Christian means trusting that God has a plan for you, but sometimes that plan takes a little time to reveal itself.What if dating is about getting to know someone and gauging interest, not lifelong compatibility?The great thing about changing expectations is that it lowers the pressure on grabbing dinner together and figuring out if the two of you even like talking to one another!As a Christian, your values and beliefs drive every decision you make, so when it comes to dating, you want to ensure that you’re meeting Christian singles with a similar outlook.You understand that God must come first in any strong relationship, and that while chemistry is an important part of keeping the romance alive, trust and compatibility are key factors in finding a suitable match.A wise man once told me that there were only two outcomes for dating relationships: getting married or breaking up.