Try to look at problems in your relationship as OPPORTUNITIES for love, growth and understanding.

Don’t stop doing the things that make you feel great about yourself and your life.

Tip #3) Lead with Attraction Talking about your relationship “issues” will never change a man.

I’ll put you on an emotional rollercoaster by periodically pulling away from you. ” Part of the beauty of online dating and e Harmony is that you’re able to get a rich sense of the man you’re connecting with before you meet in person. There’s a lot you can tell about a man by simply listening and observing. Follow these tips to keep your sanity: Tip #1) Avoid falling into the common role of the “Convincer” When you sense a man is less available to you, and it scares you, the common reaction is to unconsciously convince a man to stay and open up emotionally.

But there’s one more important thing you’ll want to know — whether or not he’ll grow to be more loving as the relationship grows, or if he’ll be the kind of man that periodically gets distant, therefore bringing up all your fears and uncertainty. And What To Do If You’re With One The best way to know a man’s emotional habits in relationships is to look at his existing relationships. This usually shows up as subtle begging, whining, or pouting in order to change his behavior.

Unfortunately, these are the exact kinds of behaviors that seem “needy” to a withdrawn man, and cause him to want to pull away more.

Tip #2) Keep your Center The quickest way to connect with someone, especially a man, is to be the kind of positive, magnetic person that they can’t help but be changed and inspired by.One of the most common situations women ask me about is what I call “Predictable Male Withdrawal.” I’ll take a second to explain exactly what this is and why it’s important…In the early stages of dating, a man is often attentive, affectionate, and willing to do anything to stay close to you. He rarely wants to talk about your feelings or the relationship. You worry about it, and wonder why suddenly you’re the only one who cares about the relationship.When we feel uncertain and worried, we often put more attention and focus on the PROBLEMS we see.But, as the saying goes, sometimes the best medicine is laughter.A positive mindset creates fun exciting experiences for the both of you.