Some of them were my lovers, some of them have become close friends and one of them is the girl on my side.

All of them can be put in one of the following three categories.

I have also met a homeless man near Silom Street in Bangkok who told me that he had built a house for his bar girl wife before she kicked him out of that house.

You can find a lot of semi pros in nightclubs that are mainly visited by foreigners, such as the Insanity club in Bangkok and you can find hordes of them in the bars and clubs around Khaosan Road.

Their intention is pretty obvious: Dating those girls can lead to a lot of disappointment.

As long as you treat her good and don’t spread some nasty shit, there is nothing wrong in helping poor girls to earn more than the average Thai employee.​Love is the most wonderful feeling on earth. The simple words ” can make your heart thump and your life worth living.

However, if those powerful words come out of the mouth of the wrong woman, they can lead to a lot of drama, resentment and shattered dreams.

The uncomfortable truth is that a lot of professional models and even some actresses in Thailand are ladyboys. In case you are one of the guys who claim that “ as bar girls.

They just hide it behind the mask of a loving and caring girlfriend.In the beginning they make you believe that they love you. After two weeks they coincidentally see a new smartphone that they want to have.They usually give you a lot of red flags that I am going to share with you later on in this article.​I am not proud to say this but the majority of Western men who have Thai wives or girlfriends ended up in a relationship with a former bar girl.Despite all the wonderful Asian women I have met from Bangkok to Chiang Mai, I know that If you ask me, waking up next to a woman with a thick sausage between her/his legs is a good reason for an intense therapeutic session.I honestly thank god, Buddha and every force in the universe that I never made this terrible experience.Thanks to countless documentaries about Thailand that only show Pattaya, no sorry, that only show the Walking Street in Pattaya and maybe Nana Plaza or Soi Cowboy in Bangkok, thousands of men believe in the following equation: and maybe you don’t haven’t seen any documentaries about Thailand Then you probably spend your time with bar girls because you want to have a quick fuck for a buck.