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It works best in the evenings (US eastern Standard time to Pacific time), and at weekends.

It has a no-nudity policy -though this is not very well moderated at times- and it will bounce you to the ‘unmoderated’ section if you get banned, where the ratio of girls to guys is far, far worse (1 in 50 to 1 in 100 at times).

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resize=768:*" / You might feel silly at first, but video sex has a distinct benefit over sexting or phone sex—you actually get to see each other.

But here’s the thing (and possibly one of the web’s best kept secret!

): some functions on the site only require registration (which is free, and for which you do not need a credit card).

Pretend like you're in the same room and after a while, you'll actually feel like you are together.

Before you start, write down 10 or more things you want to "do" with your partner—role play, dirty talk, touching, stripteases, etc.—and send these tips to each other.

It will also work better for you if you actually have an interest in languages.

However, the main advantage of the site is that it connects you directly to other users, and that you have the option to select them by sex.

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