You basically can’t go from cuckolding to anything but a breakup with your wife, which will be EXTREMELY difficult to impossible for you to initiate after a while in sub mind set, but not for her. And the beginning at least the wife asks her husband permission after details of the guy each and every time. It varies a lot but the point is in ways particular to the husband, he’s retaining control or at least veto. There’s generally an understanding that it’s gonna be just sex for the wife and that if it’s not returning dividends to the husband of more and hotter penetrative sex with his wife, but rather she’s getting into her bull too emotionally and stops wanting to let her husband have as many sex privileges as her bull, then she’s got to break it off with that guy. Unlike swinger lifestyles the hotwifing couple usually doesn’t let the husband play with other women but that’s not at all always the case.About by definition though he plays less and his wife is probably more tightly restrictive about who she’s comfortable with him playing with than he is. I wanted to post an interesting question and answer thread I found on cuckoldplace recently. Usually it’s the husbands that are encouraging their wives down the path of hotwifery but as women become more knowledgeable about this lifestyle it seems they are taking control and leading the way into something that gives them the ‘have their cake and eat it’ life that holds so much fun and sexual freedom for them. It’s those things but the price of admission shortly becomes more and more male submission, your submission, to her, her dominance over you but almost always with 99% of the women that go this way, her submissiveness to her much more sexually adept, masculine, and big dicked bulls (who she and he will work to make seem psychologically to you, her and him are even more that way than might objectively have been the case when you start all this, and so on.) Cuckoldry is a one way street.

Very often, the bait tells the guy that she has a work offer in his country, and she would be able to pay off the loaned money to him quickly.

If the guy agrees, the "lady" pretends to put all effort into making "her" travel arrangements. " She" acts surprised to find out that there are various expensive requirements that " she" has to comply with before she can fly out of the country.

"She" will get robbed or attacked, may become injured or sick, may suddenly get arrested, or her apartment may get flooded or burned.

The scam will go on for as long as the guy is willing to continue sending money to help his "Russian princess" to get through her never-ending travel misadventure.

At the polar extreme from cuckolding is hotwifing where the wife is fully submissive to her husband and fucking other men at his sole discretion to please him.

This is rather a pimp/hot ho style, and yeah can involve her getting paid money too, though generally the main emphasis is on the sexual charge of it all.If you don’t feel strongly sexually submissive to women/your wife, but you do want to jazz up you sex life and her feelings of sexual lust so that you too can fuck her more and she’ll want to with you, then I STRONGLY suggest you approach this as a hotwife, husband in control or equal control couple, with anytime husband veto.See sites such as ourhotwives on the hotwifing not cuckolding side as they call it there to see what I mean in detail, worked out in real life.Now if you’re contemplating this but don’t want it to get out of control with your submission and denial from penetrative sex with her down the road, everything totally up to her and you powerless with her as she instinctively drags you further and further that way, inspired by sites like this and the advice she’ll get here for the hoards of submissive men here (most of whom by the way are single, don’t have girlfriends, and are at least bisexual - often after being left by wives or girlfriends after starting down this cuckolding route, unable to attract another for a good long while at least).So if you have doubts about this getting out of control as you surely seem to, I highly advise you to consider what I’ve said.The bait will keep the "flames of his love" alive by periodically chatting with him on the phone or sending him descriptions of "her" erotic fantasies.