And although our sexually-repressive culture tries to say otherwise, almost everyone has a bit of kink in there somewhere–so embrace your inner passion.Getting comfortable with your desire for ABF/ANR serves two important purposes: first, you’ll be modeling the type of positive behavior you hope your partner follows; second, your comfort will help to normalize ABF/ANR, making it easier for your partner to accept as part of your relationship. When responding to a post, be similarly honest about yourself and your desires.A woman who has not nursed can still induce but she may not get as much and it may take longer.

The schedule doesn’t have to be rigid but it must be regular (no sleeping through the night, no “let’s just skip today”) both to bring in milk and to maintain the supply.

And for as long as nursing continues, missing two or more sessions in a row may require either squeezing some milk out by hand or pumping in order to keep her comfortable; missing most of a day may mean some loss of supply even if she pumps.

But at the same time we drink a glass of cow’s milk without giving it a second thought.

Adult nursing relationships are considered by many to be a sexual perversion in our culture.

This is a lot of work; in fact it is so much work that if the woman works away from home or does not have a full-time partner it is often not practical. Something like 20-30 minutes each session for at least eight sessions a day for two or three months.

After that, five or more 20-minute sessions a day may be needed if she wants to keep a full supply.

You may have to relocate to further the relationship.

Those of you in major cities may have more luck, but the search can still take months of false starts.

You have essentially two options: introduce ABF/ANR into a pre-existing relationship, or to seek out a new partner with the same passion. The theme of your search should be persistence…persistence…persistence. Before you share your desires with someone, you must first be comfortable with them yourself.