In the beginning they make you believe that they love you. After two weeks they coincidentally see a new smartphone that they want to have.They usually give you a lot of red flags that I am going to share with you later on in this article.​I am not proud to say this but the majority of Western men who have Thai wives or girlfriends ended up in a relationship with a former bar girl.I have also met a homeless man near Silom Street in Bangkok who told me that he had built a house for his bar girl wife before she kicked him out of that house.

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Thanks to the wisdom of a 79 year-old friend of my grandmother who lives in Thailand since the early 1960s I learned very soon that I have to be careful.

Those were her exact words and I am very thankful for her advice.

Thanks to countless documentaries about Thailand that only show Pattaya, no sorry, that only show the Walking Street in Pattaya and maybe Nana Plaza or Soi Cowboy in Bangkok, thousands of men believe in the following equation: and maybe you don’t haven’t seen any documentaries about Thailand Then you probably spend your time with bar girls because you want to have a quick fuck for a buck.

You give her a few thousand Baht and she gives you a few damn good blowjobs. You are a free man and you can do with your money whatever you want.

It shouldn’t come to a surprise that prostitutes want money.

You really have to understand that those girls are trained by their families since they were children that one day they will marry a “rich” foreigner.

As long as you treat her good and don’t spread some nasty shit, there is nothing wrong in helping poor girls to earn more than the average Thai employee.​Love is the most wonderful feeling on earth. The simple words ” can make your heart thump and your life worth living.

However, if those powerful words come out of the mouth of the wrong woman, they can lead to a lot of drama, resentment and shattered dreams.

The uncomfortable truth is that a lot of professional models and even some actresses in Thailand are ladyboys. In case you are one of the guys who claim that “ as bar girls.

They just hide it behind the mask of a loving and caring girlfriend.

I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it.